and way too pretty for this shit...
November 26th
21:00 CST

Hey fucking fat/bbw “admirer” and chaser creeps.

I decided that you shit rags should be paying rent if you’re not going to leave me the fuck alone. 

Buy me presents or GTFO and GTFO anywayMake your miserable, meaningless, disgusting, bottom feeding presence useful for once.

November 16th
22:48 CST

I went pants shopping today for, like, five hours at every store in a 10 mile radius of my house that sold a size 18. Not a single pair fit. There were 16’s falling off and 18’s I couldn’t button. 22’s that were cutting off circulation to my calves, and 2 pairs of 20’s from the same store, same brand, same cut, in different colors, that had a difference greater than 2 inches at the waist. The one pair of jeans that fit my butt, my waist, my calves, and weren’t made of tissue paper were, approximately, eight feet too short.

Days like today make me want to light people on fire. I just fucking want a pair of fucking pants. It’s so hard to remember that IT IS NOT MY BODY THAT IS FUCKED UP. It is the manufacturers and the designers who are the fucked up.

June 4th
17:12 CST
Testing out new ootd self-photo possibilities. Damn this orange wall is aggressive.

Shirt: Old Navy XXL
Belt: Target (years ago) XL/XXL
Dress: Dots 1X
Necklace: IGWT (it says “bless this mess”)
Shoes (not pictured): hella cute thrifted multi colored flat braided sandals size 10

5 foot 10, US18/UK22;  48-40-50, 245ish lbs

Testing out new ootd self-photo possibilities. Damn this orange wall is aggressive.

Shirt: Old Navy XXL

Belt: Target (years ago) XL/XXL

Dress: Dots 1X

Necklace: IGWT (it says “bless this mess”)

Shoes (not pictured): hella cute thrifted multi colored flat braided sandals size 10

5 foot 10, US18/UK22;  48-40-50, 245ish lbs

May 29th
10:01 CST
Hairspray! photo by Abby Tebeau

Hairspray! photo by Abby Tebeau

May 26th
11:47 CST
Hairspray! Photo by Abby Tebeau

Hairspray! Photo by Abby Tebeau

May 15th
00:59 CST
May 8th
13:18 CST

I’m not giving you attention by publishing your ask because you’re a poisonous waste of space but I’m still going to address your nonsense because I’m terrible at the internet like that.

  1. Why the fuck should I change my perfectly valid behavior because other people have predatory and problematic consumption habits? Like… how am I responsible for that misbehavior?
  2. ON WHAT GODDAMNED PLANET should I not address an individual’s aggression when it is directed at me and contributes to narratives about fat bodies, desire, and consent that are damaging to EVERYONE, in addition to it making me feel very unsafe?

Those questions are rhetorical. This is not actually a discussion.

March 2nd
10:34 CST
Ootd- trying to wear accessories like a adult edition

I don’t get this face but I am otherwise trying to embrace the First Lady Realness of my hair and am wearing hella pearls.

Everything is from Target except my scarf and jewelry those are thrifted or gifts. Cardigan size xl, dress jrs xxl, tights 1x/2x.

I am 5 foot 11, 255ish lbs, 48-40-50 usually a size 18.

Ootd- trying to wear accessories like a adult edition

I don’t get this face but I am otherwise trying to embrace the First Lady Realness of my hair and am wearing hella pearls.

Everything is from Target except my scarf and jewelry those are thrifted or gifts. Cardigan size xl, dress jrs xxl, tights 1x/2x.

I am 5 foot 11, 255ish lbs, 48-40-50 usually a size 18.

February 4th
10:25 CST
Gothshion Gothuary
I’m recovering from a shitty procedure that, on the plus side established that I don’t have cancer, but on the other fucking hurt and has rendered me useless as a human. I am feeling more up to snuff today, so brunch with our brunch crew at Flying Saucer. 


Everything’s from Target. 
Dress: plus size 2
Sweater: juniors medium
Shoes: size 9. They are slippers. I am wearing them outside. No. Fucks. Given. 

5 foot 11, 250lbs, size 18. 48-39-50

Gothshion Gothuary
I’m recovering from a shitty procedure that, on the plus side established that I don’t have cancer, but on the other fucking hurt and has rendered me useless as a human. I am feeling more up to snuff today, so brunch with our brunch crew at Flying Saucer.


Everything’s from Target.
Dress: plus size 2
Sweater: juniors medium
Shoes: size 9. They are slippers. I am wearing them outside. No. Fucks. Given.

5 foot 11, 250lbs, size 18. 48-39-50

February 1st
12:30 CST
The Stand4EveryBody website collects contact information for organizations and individuals that are responding to Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta’s weight-stigmatizing campaign with efforts to encourage a Health At Every Size® approach and celebration of weight diversity. It is our collective mission to teach fat kids everywhere that they are just as valued and supported as their peers; that we will no longer stand for stigma, shame and humiliation for “our own good” and the “welfare of our children;” that any future fat-shaming marketing will be met with messaging that celebrates weight diversity and Health At Every Size®. Join us in this mission. Get involved- view the website and see the site’s “How I Can Help” section for some great suggestions-, get in touch to add your anti-weight-bigotry project to the collition , and share this resource with your friends!

The Stand4EveryBody website collects contact information for organizations and individuals that are responding to Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta’s weight-stigmatizing campaign with efforts to encourage a Health At Every Size® approach and celebration of weight diversity.

It is our collective mission to teach fat kids everywhere that they are just as valued and supported as their peers; that we will no longer stand for stigma, shame and humiliation for “our own good” and the “welfare of our children;” that any future fat-shaming marketing will be met with messaging that celebrates weight diversity and Health At Every Size®.

Join us in this mission. Get involved- view the website and see the site’s “How I Can Help” section for some great suggestions-, get in touch to add your anti-weight-bigotry project to the collition , and share this resource with your friends!

December 9th
15:26 CST
Via
abbytebeauphotography:

Plus Size - Rachel on Flickr.
verybusyandimportant

WOAH I AM SO PRETTY AND ABBY IS A GREAT PHOTOGRAPHER.
WOAH.
5 foot 11, 245lbs, size 18us, 48-40-50
(p.s. yrwelcomefortheupskirt)

abbytebeauphotography:

Plus Size - Rachel on Flickr.

verybusyandimportant

WOAH I AM SO PRETTY AND ABBY IS A GREAT PHOTOGRAPHER.

WOAH.

5 foot 11, 245lbs, size 18us, 48-40-50

(p.s. yrwelcomefortheupskirt)

December 1st
11:33 CST
I’m so in love with my legs, so in love with the incredible artist who put the perfect bows on them, and so excited for the next tattoo they’re doing for me!!

I’m so in love with my legs, so in love with the incredible artist who put the perfect bows on them, and so excited for the next tattoo they’re doing for me!!